Can you tell me exactly what will happen in a session?
The short answer is no. Every session is unique and highly dependent on the individual needs and fetishes of each submissive. While I will give a very loose idea of what the session will include, sessions evolve based on reactions and emotions.
How do I book a session?
Visit my Book a Session page and fill out the session request form. Be as specific and thorough as possible when filling out the request form.
When are you available?
I am available by appointment only, with my usual availability of 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. I always prefer daytime sessions, but will accommodate later sessions on a case by case basis. Advanced booking is the only way to ensure the time and day you want. I require 24 hours notice for new clients, and at least 2 hours notice for returning clients.
Do I have to pay a deposit?
Deposits are required to book your session. This is due to many time wasters and flakes, as well as for my own personal safety. The deposit is nonrefundable, and ranges from $50-$100, based on session length and references. Deposits can be paid three ways:
Go to a retail store (think Walmart, CVS, or even most gas stations) and purchase an Amazon gift card/cards that totals the deposit amount ($50-$100, per my direction).
Scratch off the "claim code" area on the back of the gift card.
Send those numbers through email to me. Simple as that!
Click this link - -to be taken to the Etsy eGift card page, or this link - to be taken to the Amazon eGift card page. While I prefer Etsy gift cards, I will accept Amazon.
Fill in all of the required information, with the e-giftcard being sent to my email, email@example.com
NEVER put a message in the "add a message" section, and DO NOT change the "Delivery Date", it should say "Now".
You may request my Venmo ID via email.
Do I have to be "vetted"?
Yes, you indeed have to be vetted. This ensures my safety and security in seeing you. I request two verifiable references to previous professional sessions. If you are unable to provide these, additional vetting methods are required. I permanently delete all vetting info once you are cleared, and will never "out" or blackmail anyone. I am a professional, I have no desire to ruin my good reputation.
Do you offer same day sessions?
I prefer to plan in advance for all sessions. While I will occasionally allow same day sessions for regular clients, it is a privilege that is EARNED, and an additional tribute is required. I do not offer same day sessions to new clients. You are expected to follow session protocol and have a consult call prior to a session.
Are you looking for a personal slave, to play with for free?
No, I am not. Personal slave is a very high privilege, and I would only consider one who is specifically service oriented and useful to me. I am not seeking any personal slaves at this time. In that same sense, I do not date clients.
What are your HARD limits?
No switching (I will never submit, period.)
No scat/ruby showers
No Blood/cutting/needle play
Anything involving underage (under 18) participants or non-consenting participants
No actual animals (pet play is fine)
No "real" blackmail (role play only)
No body worship (other than feet)
No illegal services/ "extra hand"/ "full service" nonsense
Sexual contact-If you attempt to initiate any type of physical contact, the session will end IMMEDIATELY and you will be removed from the premises. You will receive no refund and you will be blacklisted. NO EXCEPTIONS! (This includes "oral servitude", facesitting, body worship (besides feet), or any other thinly-veiled attempt at sexual contact).
Where do sessions take place?
Incall sessions take place on the north side of San Antonio in my private, domestic play space. My collection of toys and devices range from numerous restraints, plugs, gags, sensory toys, dildos, TENZ electrical, sissification gear, and pet play items, and is equipped with a full restroom with shower. Visit my What to Expect page to see photos and more descriptions. Note that I am extremely selective on outcall services, and only offer the option to established, trusted clients.
What is your cancellation and no-show policy?
I put a lot of time and energy into planning my sessions, and arranging things for our time together. I also block off that particular time slot for you.
If you cancel the session with at least 24 hours notice, the deposit is transferable to a rescheduled session.
If you cancel the session with less than 24 hours notice, your deposit is forfeited, and you will be required to pay tribute in full for your next rescheduled session.
If you simply no show, you will be blocked and blacklisted.
Do you offer consultations?
Nervous about seeing a professional for the first time? Wanting to talk in length about your session? I offer in-person consultations at a vanilla location of my choosing for $100/hr, or a 30 minute phone consultation for tribute of $60.
Will a safe word be used?
Yes, we will discuss safe words while negotiating, prior to our session. I only engage in safe, sane, and consensual BDSM play. I do not engage in any activities I believe would cause permanent or irreversible damage.
I have never seen a professional dominatrix before. Do you accept first timers?
Yes, I have no issues with vetted newbies, and I tend to enjoy popping that metaphorical kink cherry! I like to help people explore kink and learn what fetishes they truly love. I also enjoy educating people on safe, sane, and consensual BDSM practices. Note that new subs with no experience or references are subject to more extensive vetting, and higher deposit to ensure my safety and security.
How discreet are you?
I hold discretion as one of my highest priorities, and would never do anything to jeopardize it. Any information given is for screening purposes only, and never shared. My play space is private, and you will never run into other guests. You will never be recorded or photographed without your knowledge or consent. In the same breath, I expect the exact same respect in my privacy. My information should never be shared with others, for any reason.
How do I prepare for our session?
Review my Session Protocol page for that info. In general, good hygiene is expected, arriving at your session time, and having your remaining tribute.
May I take you out for dinner and drinks?
While I understand the desire to wine and dine an amazing woman of my caliber, I am not an escort in any sense and do not offer dinner dates. I do allow brunch or lunch consultations, however.
I have a question that isn’t answered on your website. May I contact you?
Yes, you may email me and ask any questions that are unanswered. If you ask a question that is clearly answered here, expect to be ignored.